TCM,
There is nothing wrong in asking questions when it is done in a kind way. That is not what happened in this case, and not what has happened in many, many other cases here.
Personally, I had questions about her myself. But you will not find any rude remarks here about her from me. On the other hand, even though I was not sure what to think, I had not already made a judgment against her. My mind was open.
Unfortunately, the trend at this site by a few is to make inferred insults to new people until they end up leaving. There is nothing wrong with having questions. There is something wrong with being rude in getting info, particularly when the questioner has little or no facts and has already made a first impression negative judgment. |